But I was so terrified that my hands were shaking. Every broker I had met in China had wanted to rape me, and I assumed this one was no different. Even though I was still skinny and malnourished, I no longer had an appetite. Food was the reason I had come to China, and now the thought of it made me sick. The buses made frequent stops, and at one of them a vendor came on board to sell ice cream to the passengers.
Hongwei bought one for me. I ate the whole thing and even kept eating it in my mind when it was finished. That night we stayed at an inn in a small town outside Jinzhou. By the time we arrived that evening, I was again too upset to eat anything. In Order to Live by Yeonmi Park. I knew then that something was terribly wrong.
We had come to a bad place, maybe even worse than the one we had left. Both of these events shaped me, and I would not trade them for an ordinary and peaceful life. But there is more to the story of how I became who I am today. Like tens of thousands of other North Koreans, I escaped my homeland and settled in South Korea, where we are still considered citizens, as if a sealed border and nearly seventy years of conflict and tension never divided us. The regime blocks all outside information, all videos and movies, and jams radio signals.
There is no World Wide Web and no Wikipedia. The only books are filled with propaganda telling us that we live in the greatest country in the world, even though at least half of North Koreans live in extreme poverty and many are chronically malnourished.
The regime calls us traitors. If I tried to return, I would be executed. The information blockade works both ways: not only does the government attempt to keep all foreign media from reaching its people, it also prevents outsiders from learning the truth about North Korea.
The regime is known as the Hermit Kingdom because it tries to make itself unknowable. Only those of us who have escaped can describe what really goes on behind the sealed borders.
But until recently, our stories were seldom heard. I arrived in South Korea in the spring of , a fifteen-year-old with no money and the equivalent of two years of primary school. Five years later, I was a sophomore at a top university in Seoul, a police administration major with a growing awareness of the burning need for justice in the land where I was born.
I have told the story of my escape from North Korea many times, in many forums. I have described how human traffickers tricked my mother and me into following them to China, where my mother protected me and sacrificed herself to be raped by the broker who had targeted me. Once in China, we continued to look for my sister, without success. My father crossed the border to join us in our search, but he died of untreated cancer a few months later. In , my mother and I were rescued by Christian missionaries, who led us to the Mongolian border with China.
From there we walked through the frigid Gobi Desert one endless winter night, following the stars to freedom. All this is true, but it is not the whole story. Before now, only my mother knew what really happened in the two years that passed between the night we crossed the Yalu River into China and the day we arrived in South Korea to begin a new life. I told almost nothing of my story to the other defectors and human rights advocates I met in South Korea.
I believed that, somehow, if I refused to acknowledge the unspeakable past, it would disappear. I convinced myself that a lot of it never happened; I taught myself to forget the rest. But as I began to write this book, I realized that without the whole truth my life would have no power, no real meaning. With the help of my mother, the memories of our lives in North Korea and China came back to me like scenes from a forgotten nightmare.
Some of the images reappeared with a terrible clarity; others were hazy, or scrambled like a deck of cards spilled on the floor. The process of writing has been the process of remembering, and of trying to make sense out of those memories. Along with writing, reading has helped me order my world.
Later I was able to read them in English. I understand that sometimes the only way we can survive our own memories is to shape them into a story that makes sense out of events that seem inexplicable. I know that it is possible to lose part of your humanity in order to survive. But I also know that the spark of human dignity is never completely extinguished, and that given the oxygen of freedom and the power of love, it can grow again.
This is my story of the choices I made in order to live. At Hyesan it opens into a valley in the Paektu Mountains, where the city of , sprawls between rolling hills and a high plateau covered with fields, patches of trees, and graves.
The river, usually shallow and tame, is frozen solid during winter, which lasts the better part of the year. This is the coldest part of North Korea, with temperatures sometimes plunging to minus degrees Fahrenheit.
Only the toughest survive. To me, Hyesan was home. Just across the river is the Chinese city of Chaingbai, which has a large population of ethnic Koreans. The first edition of the novel was published in September 25th , and was written by Yeonmi Park. The book was published in multiple languages including English, consists of pages and is available in Hardcover format. The main characters of this non fiction, autobiography story are ,.
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